Top 10 Tips To Determine If She’s Submissive

Top 10 Tips To Determine If She's Submissive

Some guys like more aggressive girls — in some instances craving to be dominated and abused by a dominatrix.  However, the majority of guys desire that she be the submissive one attuned to servicing your needs and desires. If you are seeking a submissive chick, then you should be cognizant of the signals typically put out by women of this ilk. The following are some telltale signs which will help you isolate and collar a girl who will enjoy following your commands.

1. Checking Her Hair
While many girls appear to be fixated with their hair, a submissive girl will touch or attempt to fix her hair in a display meant to please you by presenting herself to your highest standards. This clue alone is obviously insufficient for you to make a firm determination, but taken within the context of other clues it is a help sign towards recognizing submissiveness.

2. Closed Lips
Submissive girls generally keep their lips pursed, and even when they smile they do it with a closed mouth. Obviously, she will open her mouth wide upon your command at the appropriate time.

3. Constant Smiling
Whereas a typical girl will express a wide range of emotions (oftentimes annoying ones as you well know), a submissive women will always smile in an attempt to illustrate that she is pleased with you.

4. Eye Contact
Many girls will maintain eye contact with you, but a submissive girl will quickly glance away (most ordinarily glance down) after you initiate eye contact. Don’t take this as a sign of rejection, a submissive girl does not deserve to make eye contact with you unless you specifically permit her to.

5. Eyebrows
This is a very subtle sign to catch, but a submissive girl will raise her eyebrows at inappropriate times. This expression ordinarily is reserved to show surprise, but submissive girls have a tendency to display this facial body language in the midst of casual conversation.

6. Head Posture
Observe how she is holding her head. More aggressive and strident girls will keep their chins up, whereas submissive women tend to maintain a posture with their chin down.

7. Leaning
Submissive chicks will lean in towards you appearing to be enthralled by every word you say. A truly submissive girl will never maintain an aloof body posture, she will always be signifying that she is yours and her attention is solely devoted to you.

8. Nervous Laughs
Be attuned for nervous laughter — especially after she finishes a sentence. This nervous laugh is a sign that she is desperately seeking your approval, and she is trying to gauge your reaction to what she just said.

9. Nodding
You might occasional find yourself nodding excessively when conversing with your boss or a major sales prospect. This is because you are trying to curry favor and allow the other party to maintain a position of dominance. The same principal applies to submissive women. Watch for ones that seem to nod at everything you say no matter how stupid or inane your comment was.

10. Palms Up
A submissive girl will use the palms up hand gesture far more frequently than their more aggressive female counterparts. Watch her hands for this telltale clue. Additionally, submissive women tend to have gestures which entail holding their hands at shoulder length.

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15 Comments

  1. ~m says:

    What a load of malarkey! As a submissive woman, I don’t put out these signs. In fact, if you met me on the street or in a business setting you’d never guess I’m submissive. That’s reserved for one man only – and then I behave in the manner which He expects. There’s a hell of a lot more to being submissive than the drivel you posted here.

  2. Seriously? This is a pisstake isn’t it?
    First of all this ” The following are some telltale signs which will help you isolate and collar a girl who will enjoy following your commands.” rings alarms bells straight off.

    Secondly after reading this article I’m forced to ask that if it isn’t a piss take then exactly how much experience do you *actually* have?

    Not one of these so called “signs” is an accurate reading of what constitutes a submissive women. You’ll find that the majority of submissive women show no outward sign. They’re normal women, doing everyday jobs and you wouldn’t have a clue.

    I’m guessing that you’ve read a bit online and now constitute yourself an “expert”? If that’s the case then you need to re-educate yourself.

    If it *is* a piss take then well done!

  3. Coyote Too says:

    Complete and utter garbage.

  4. Alyana says:

    Maybe it’s just me, but as a submissive woman, I find myself also doing many of the things listed above, with no conscious effort. I’m not the “feminist” outside of the house, but I think of myself as an average submissive girl. Thank you for this.

  5. 21572 says:

    I’m a very submissive woman and i really act the way the artical described. Well, not always, just sometimes, when i know a guy is interested in me or if I’m talking to a man who strikes me as really dominant. It’s an automatic uncontrolled response i have to certain guys, i guess. But out there, a lot of submissive women hide their true nature and act alpha instead. It depends on the type of the submissive women. Maybe those who don’t act submissive in everyday life wish to be a challenge to the man who would take them in hand and just be a sub in the bedroom, and those who do act submissive are more into 24/7 slave/Master relationshp.

  6. Sam says:

    This is bullshit. Half of this is interest. The other half is self-consciousness or shyness. I enjoy being a dom and I do these things due to my not-so-healthy self image and depression. This is not a good guide. The only way to truly know, is if she tells you she is.

  7. Pscott97 says:

    This describes me exactly. Up until recently I have just admitted to being a submissive woman. Didn’t know why I felt that way. I’m glad to know that there is nothing wrong with it. But I have denied it for so long. It has almost ruined my marriage. I hope by admitting it we can repair it.

  8. Kitty1985 says:

    So where do you’d all learn this stuff and how do you meet you dom male ?

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  10. zeta says:

    You’re kidding with this right? I’m about as subby as a chick can get. You are clueless.

  11. strictdom says:

    This is the shallowest post i have ever read, if not sexist, probably the person who wrote this was spending too much time reading fantasy erotica than meeting actual, and real women.

  12. mengia says:

    How do you hold your hands at shoulder length?

  13. sach says:

    Not true at all and I’m a very submissive girl

  14. Mercy says:

    What tosh. I’m a sub girl, and this doesn’t describe me one iota. At least, not when I’m in a room with a man I want… maybe when I’m waiting for an important, but boring, meeting to kick off.

    Sexual submissiveness really isn’t necessarily connected to low self-esteem in real life, you know? Yes, in bed I like to do exactly what he likes and not waste anybody’s time pretending otherwise, but when I’m not in sexual situation I’m a real live person, just as if I was a guy, except with a double X instead of an XY.

    And to show I’m interested? Like most sub girls I know, I’m not afraid to get my chin up, hold eye contact, buy him a drink and drop some moves on the dance floor right in front of him, and his mates if I have to, because I don’t care what anybody else thinks except for him: and I want to make sure he knows how into him I am, and how far I’ll go to see him smile.

  15. SirsGrrl says:

    I am a submissive girl. The list describes me perfectly. Perhaps it is the difference of being submissive by nature or being submissive for play. I am submissive in every way.

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